Searching in Oak Ridge, TN
I'm a newly empty nester single mom if two girls and
3 grands i absolutely loved being a hands on gogo mom the house with all the school kids my house was always full of noise rather they were singing arguing debating or playimg a game deep talks and chats mommy daughter vibes so many things we did as mom trying hwrbest to learn my girls and it was getting close to them both turning 18 and my oldest made it her life long goal to torture me with a reminder nearly every morning of her 17th year which scared me but also made it surreal and in my opinion made our last year together super fast it went by so quik and before I knew it ,she was days away from turning 18 and I
Knew I had raised very independent strong willed young women they both found jobs extremely fast and weeks later they were each at different times calling me to help them clean their apts before decorating it and overnite it felt like! I wake up off the couch looking around in the apt we once shared and they were gone friends that once needed me as a partime mom all gone just silence me and the walls and I think a little but of depression tried making its way into my life but I could identify it fairly quickly and got ahold of it and made a honest attempt to revamp and reconstruct my life for life part 2 I called it! Lifeafter surviving motherhood i found it financially straining after a while changing jobs more than once put a strain on keeping my bills on time so I finally excepted I needed to downsize to a roomate situation to live a more sustainable productive life i could afford and enjoy now I have lost my roomate her father is sick and she was forced to pack up in a hurry and head back to her home town to care for him herself so this is the very reason im making this profile, all good things come to a end so I expected one day it would end simply because it was nearly perfect we were in sync lots in common enjoyed taco tuesdays utube cracken jokes eaten hot tamales candy and relaxing ,I just didnt push myself to go fishing I had a room and my own bathroom washer and dryer connect and my job was across the street which I fell in love with so it was nearly perfect! I am so easy going calm mannered I work ,cook , decorate, refurbished wooden furniture, very lady like but I enjoy fixing things under a hood of my car and others fixing things around the house and helping those in need of food clothing, completing job and benefits apps , I also do taxes for very low rates I clean houses sell dinners meal preps braid hair and take the elderly to appts pharmacies if they need a bath I will do it wash their hair sit and chat and giggle with them be their personal shopper or assistant lastly u got pets and health is down call me I am a pet walker as well!! I enjoy life's gems
