Searching in East Brunswick, NJ
Hi, I'm a 47 year old male full time Paramedic in the Hudson valley region. I am very sweet, kind, shy at first, outgoing (once I'm comfortable enough to be that way), funny, very easy going, non-controversial, charming person looking for a female house mate with a similar personality that would allow me to stay with them.
I am not a creep. I'm not creepy in any way. I am a mature gentleman and respectful of everyone and everything around me.
I am in the process of getting divorced from a very toxic and abusive relationship. My soon to be ex wife and I will be selling our house and relocating elsewhere.
We haven't solidified anything yet, I am just testing the waters to see what my options are.
I have a 13 year old son who's a gentle giant. I don't know if he will be living with me or his mom or 50/50. Sadly I vape. But I can and will quit without hesitation to be as compatible as I can be.
I work at least 48 hours a week and bring in over 120k a year after taxes.
I mainly keep to myself unless I'm invited to join others. I don't want anyone to think that I'm anti-social. I just don't like to crash parties that I'm not invited to.
I have a cat that I'd like to keep.
I have an EV car. I was hoping, if available, I could use an extension cord to charge it while home. I charge it at work if that's not an option.
Although my credit score reflects very poor, it is from unknown credit cards that were made in my name and never paid off. Reason, I didn't know they existed. I never looked at the bank account or noticed my credit history. 9 years ago, my wife and I were in the process of getting divorced for the first time. I moved out and I pay my bills on time when I'm in charge of finances. While married. I had left my wife to handle finances and she got us into a financial mess.
I was hoping to find someone that would take me in like a wounded and abused dog needing a home.
I am educated and intelligent. I'm career driven.
I'm not much of a cook, but I can make a mean chocolate milk!
If you have any questions, please don't hesitate to ask.
Thanks
Paul